Almost 30

My birthday is in 2 days. I will be 30. I keep looking back on my 20s and wondering if maybe I've had my priorities wrong this whole time. I've accomplished a lot, technically, but what do those things even matter? I've been married. But I got divorced. I've loved and been loved. But all [...]

Write from your scars, not your wounds

A wise woman said to me today, "if you want to touch others you must write from your scars,  not your wounds." I realized that the writing I have done recently, on both my blog and my Facebook, has been wound writing. And I realize that writing from this place may have had the very [...]

Liebster Award

I usually forget to do these but I am trying to do better with that because I'm genuinely appreciative for nominations. I was nominated by emergingfromthedarknight: https://emergingfromthedarknight.wordpress.com Thank you, love, for thinking of me for this award and here is my contribution, suggestions and answers. Guidelines for participation for my nominees: Shake the hand of [...]

Words of wisdom from my past self…

This day several years ago I posted two things that still resonate with me, that I hope might resonate with all of you as well. The first: It isn't what you say or do that cuts the deepest, it is what you fail to say and choose not to do. That negative space where something (an [...]

An open letter to my depression

I am having my students write open letters as a part of their end of year memoir projects, so since I'm doing the project with them I decided to write an open letter to depression. An open letter to my depression: To my depression, I would say, "Dear Depression" but then you haven't been a [...]