Almost 30

My birthday is in 2 days. I will be 30. I keep looking back on my 20s and wondering if maybe I've had my priorities wrong this whole time. I've accomplished a lot, technically, but what do those things even matter? I've been married. But I got divorced. I've loved and been loved. But all [...]

A Secret and Thirteen Reasons Why

Most of you, by now, probably know the second season of Thirteen Reasons Why was released last Friday. Despite my better judgement I binge watched the whole season that weekend. And while the season does some obvious things to start conversation (how they handled sexual assault, how they talked about the athletes role in those [...]

A Lifetime of Running from My Own Presence

Therapy is a lot like school: there is homework. But, it's life homework. Presumably the kind of thing that makes us better versions of who we already are. I don't know. I haven't decided if there is truth to that but I'm doing the homework anyway. Because I've always been a tenacious student and I'll [...]